A Pleasant Personality
Personality cannot be summed up in a single word or even a dozen words because it encompasses all of a person’s traits, whether they are good or bad, positive or negative. Your personality is absolutely unique from every other personality; it is the summation of all the traits that set you apart from everyone else on the planet in terms of attributes, feelings, traits, appearances, etc.
However, I refer to a pleasing personality as the “personality of success” because it is the personality that doesn’t antagonize. Anyone who is determined to learn how to navigate life without friction and who has the goal of getting along peacefully and quietly with others might develop this type of personality.
A pleasing personality is often found in a person who speaks gently and compassionately, chooses clever words that do not offend, speaks with humility, dresses stylishly in complementary colors and styles, is selfless, and is not only willing but eager to assist others. one who is friends with everyone, rich or poor, regardless of profession, political affiliation, or religion. It can be observed in a person who refrains from speaking ill of others, whether for a good or bad reason, and who is able to engage in conversation without getting drawn into vulgar conversations or useless debates over divisive issues like politics and religion.
A pleasing personality may be found in the individual who sees both the good and the bad in people, but allows for the latter; who does not try to change or correct others; who smiles often and deeply; who loves music and young children; who sympathizes with all in need and overlooks acts of cruelty and betrayal; who willingly grants others the freedom to do as they please as long as no one’s rights are violated. One who genuinely makes an effort to be optimistic in all of their thoughts and deeds, who encourages others and inspires them to improve themselves and achieve more and better success in their areas of specialization.
In conclusion, it is important to note that quite a few factors contribute to the majority of your personality, including your voice—its pitch, tone, and volume—your clothes and how you wear them, how well the colors and quality of your clothing coordinate, as stated earlier, your facial expressions, which are revealed by the lines on your face or the lack thereof, and how you use language. These are all important facets of your personality since they reveal if you are refined or not the instant you utter a word.
It is not my intention to go into detail about all the aspects of a pleasant personality; rather, I want to draw your attention to the most important ones so you may consider them and perhaps look for them in others. I also want to encourage everyone who reads this to embrace or cultivate the habit of having a pleasant personality because it not only makes you successful, though that is relative, but also brings you peace and makes you stand out.
As I like to say, a pleasant personality will always make a greater impact than appearances.
Caveat: If you have a pleasant personality, you should preserve it because we live in a society where the good guys are often taken for granted. If you do this, you’ll find that you appeal to people who are like you and repel individuals who desire to do you evil.
